Seasons From the Hart

9: How Busy Moms Can Actually Achieve Their Goals (Part 2)

Written by Deanna Hart | Jan 6, 2025 10:30:00 AM

 

Are you a busy mom who feels overwhelmed when thinking about your personal goals? You're not alone. As a mom juggling work, family responsibilities, and the unique challenges of raising neurodivergent children, I understand how hard it can be to find time for your own goals. But here's what I've learned: success starts with your mindset, and yes, you can transform your mindset in just five minutes a day.

Why Your Mindset Matters More Than Your Schedule

When I started my journey to lose 30 pounds, I thought time was my biggest obstacle. Between managing my family's needs, work deadlines, and daily chaos, finding time for fitness seemed impossible. But the real barrier wasn't my packed schedule - it was my mindset.

Common Mindset Blocks That Hold Busy Moms Back:

  • "I don't have enough time"
  • "I'm too tired to start"
  • "I'll do it tomorrow"
  • "It's selfish to focus on my goals"
  • "I can't do it with my crazy schedule"

 

The Science Behind Mindset and Goal Achievement

When we feel overwhelmed, our brain's amygdala becomes overactive, releasing stress hormones that make it harder to think clearly and make decisions. This explains why sometimes just thinking about our goals can feel exhausting.

Breaking Free from Mental Ruts

As I learned from Elizabeth Benton's book "Chasing Cupcakes," our thought patterns create deep ruts in our minds. These patterns become automatic, making it hard to think differently about our goals. But here's the good news - we can create new patterns, one small shift at a time.

Three Game-Changing Mindset Shifts for Busy Moms

1. From "I Don't Have Time" to "I Can Find Five Minutes"

Instead of waiting for the perfect moment, look for small pockets of time:

  • During your morning coffee
  • While waiting in the school pickup line
  • Between loads of laundry
  • During TV commercial breaks

 

2. From "I Don't Feel Like It" to "Feelings Don't Drive Actions"

Remember: You don't always feel like doing the dishes or taking a shower, but you do them anyway because you want the result. Apply this same logic to your goals.

3. From "I'm Too Tired" to "I Can Handle Five More Minutes"

As James Clear explains in "Atomic Habits," small one-degree changes compound over time to create significant results.

Making Mindset Shifts Stick: A Practical Guide

Create a Five-Minute Morning Routine

  • Practice deep breathing
  • Set a positive intention
  • Visualize your goal

Catch Negative Self-Talk

  • Notice words like "can't" and "don't"
  • Replace them with empowering alternatives
  • Talk to yourself like you'd talk to your child

Track Your Progress

  • Celebrate small wins
  • Focus on consistency over perfection
  • Remember that progress isn't linear

Turning Chaos into Motivation

As busy moms, we often see our chaotic schedules as obstacles. But what if we could turn that chaos into fuel for our goals? Here's how:

Problem-Solving in Five-Minute Blocks

  • Can't do a full workout? Do five minutes of squats while cooking
  • No time to meal prep? Prepare one healthy snack
  • Too busy to declutter? Clear one drawer

Building Momentum Through Small Wins

Every small action builds confidence. When I was working toward my weight loss goal, I learned that five minutes of movement was better than waiting for the "perfect" hour-long workout that never came.

Your Action Plan for This Week

  1. Identify your biggest mindset block
  2. Choose one mindset shift to practice
  3. Find three five-minute windows in your day
  4. Track your progress, no matter how small
  5. Celebrate every win

Remember: "Where there's a will, there's a way" isn't just a saying - it's a mindset that can transform your life, one five-minute block at a time.

Ready to Transform Your Mindset?

Listen to the latest episode of the Stress Free Supermom Podcast to here specific examples, get a good laugh, and take this on the road with you. 

 

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